Do you have a love/hate relationship with someone? A friend? A boss? A family member? I'm sure you all do. 

I hate that feeling you know? Sometimes you like this person, sometimes you just wish they didn't exist. Most of the time you feel inferior to that particular person, but there's nothing you can do about it. 

That aside. I had a friend whom I regarded as a sister. We met while doing an interview for a local paper for a Valentines Day contest. We hit it off really well, whatsapped every single day, went out every single week. Then all things changed after she was crowned the ultimate winner. She claimed that she was always the one doing the txting to the guy, and didn't seem grateful that he actually bothered to respond. FYI, he's a celeb? And to my understanding, celebs are too busy to have their phones next to them all day, like us mere minions? And she whined that he never asked her out after the contest. And kept getting irritated that the reporter wanted to do a follow up interview with her and so on. 

Like HELLO?? It was already stated in the terms and conditions before you actually sent in your application ya? Can read or not? 

I was trying to tolerate it and be nice, telling her he's busy filming and doing photoshoots, and hosting shows. But she didn't seem to understand. To me, it's just a bloody contest. Whether he was really into her or not, it's his choice and he already crowned her as his final choice, what else is she expecting? A marriage proposal? 

And she didn't seem to get it. Her dream guy had chosen her. Txted her. Taken her out for dinner. Bothered to even reply her messages. Not those one word two word line answers, mind you. My dream guy, Mr M (same contest, different guy), only put me in his Top 6 out of obligation, didn't even bother to return most of my txts, and when he did, only one two WORDS (yes, no, haha), that sort. Eh hello. If you're gonna reply like that, don't bother replying. And he spent the entire V day evening with his eyes fixed on the bitch he finally chose. In fact, before that night, I knew he was already going to pick that bitch. 

I call her a bitch not because he picked her. I call her a bitch cos she used me to dig out info about him, and I stupidly fed her info. I call her a bitch cos she can proclaim that I suit him better, she's not into him, and then appear in the bloody paper with him a few weeks with headlines that scream: "SHE MADE THE FIRST MOVE BY KISSING HIM". Bitch. Slut. Whore. 

I think I'm too nice. 

Ok back to the topic. She whined and whine. And complained and complained. The final straw came when she txted me and went: "What's wrong with him! I finally got over him and now he has to come into my life again by liking my FB status." 

I snapped and told her to quit whining and grow up. I forgot what's the exact word she used on me, but it wasn't very pleasant. Something about me not understanding and being mean. Erm hello? Do you expect me to comply with you and let you whine till the day you die or give you tough love? 

Then a few days ago, I realised I don't see her updates on FB anymore. Went to check, and realised she had unfriended me. ROFL. She unfriended her dream guy too. 

Sheesh, I'm not that childish. My ex dream guy is still in my friends list. I just blocked his updates only. :P